Lu Martins
Registered: January 2009
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Journaling: Trechos do texto "Ser Pai é..." de Athur da Távora
"... Above all do not expect rewards. But be happy if and when they arrive. It's about doing what is necessary over and inside the misunderstanding. You learn tolerance for others and intolerance to exercise hard (but understanding) with the own mistakes. It's live then correct the weaknesses in the child, making himself strong on behalf of him and all you have to live to understand and address. Knowing that experience only useless to those who have, and we just have to live. So is endure the pain of seeing their children pass the necessary suffering, trying to protect them without realizing it, so they can discover their own paths. Being good without being weak.
It is never transferred to the children's share of his imperfection, his weak side, helpless and orphaned. Learning to be exceeded, even struggling to find replacements. It is showing no understanding, and expect to harvest time, though not in life. Learning to stifle the need to cuddle and understanding. But going to tears when they arrive. Achieve maximum anxiety maximum of silence. The maximum coexistence maximum of loneliness. It is, finally, take the victory just when he realizes that the son whom he helped to grow longer, it does not need to live. It's who vanishes in the work he has done and smiled, serene, for having done everything to cease to be important "
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